When it came to raising a
daughter, traditional, conservative mothers and fathers strove to make sure
that she grew up to be a guixiu, that is, a cultivated young lady. From
their point of view, she should be polite, demure, and skilled at spinning,
weaving, and embroidery. She should know how to mill grain and prepare and
preserve food. Ideally, she would also be educated— well versed in the prose
and poetry of model women of the past and familiar with some of the many how-to
manuals that were widely available. Careful note was taken of a female child’s
birth year, month, and day so that later she could be carefully matched to a
fiancé. From that day forward, elite and common girls alike were raised to be
chaste, disciplined, and hard-working.

It’s thought that this practice
started among 10th-century court dancers, who bound their feet to dance en
pointe—like modern ballerinas. Small feet became a sexual fetish in Chinese
society. Sex manuals from the 18th century list four dozen ways to play with a
bound foot. Tiny feet and a delicate gait were also crucial symbols of status
and good breeding among elite women. The wealthy wrapped their tiny feet in the
finest silks and clad them in elegant shoes featuring their finest embroidery. Some
ethnic minorities rejected foot binding. But among the Han Chinese majority, it
was almost universal by the 17th century, and not effectively banned until the
20th century.
From the Great Courses: Understanding Imperial China
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